8.20.2013

July 2013 In Pictures


Yep, I realize August is more than half over - just doin' a little catch up!


Bubbles
Playground
Beach Fun
First Shwings Race
Swinging with Dad

First Movie Outing
Sharing a Chair (!)
Hammock Time
Library Girl
Complex Sandcastle Structure

Annual Raspberry Pickin'
Pony Ride
Favorite Remlinger Fun
Selfie with Furbaby
Sleeping with Book Buddies

Aftermath of Mudpie Making 
Favorite Ragnar Photo
Finish Line
Hospital Time
Taking a Turn in the Hospital Bed 

Bedtime Story Reading
Checking out an old Firetruck at the Car Show
Hungry Pug
Chalk Flowers and Bees
Climbing a Tree

8.18.2013

This Weeks Eats 8.18.13

Ahh, back to normalcy and I'm so very glad to be menu planning - again.  I had hoped to have something to say about the food on Orcas Island; alas, our little vacation was great, but it was also quite the comedy of errors in regards to missed opportunities with meals and other things (I'll have the travelogue up soon-ish).  Let's just say that we're happy we planned to have the weekend to recover.  We did decide on forking over lots of cash to go on a whale watching tour, and that certainly did not disappoint!


I've got two new recipes on the menu for this week, hopefully those will not disappoint either - how's that for a segue? 
I'm linking up with Mommy Run Fast and Jill Conyers, be sure to check out all the great weekly menus!

8.09.2013

Friday Things, Gone Fishin'

Well, metaphorically 'gone fishing.'  I'm doing another hiatus on the blog next week; although, this one has been planned for awhile.  We're doing a combination of staycation/small road trip vacation instead of hanging at Children's Hospital for a week!  I've got lots of great stuff from the internet for today to make up for it, and I can tell you at least one thing that will be on our weekly menu next week:


Portillos!

We're finally trying the Italian Beef kit!  The cooking instructions are a bit more intimidating than the hot dogs, which is why we've shied away.  But, we could put off our cravings no longer.

Lately, Friday Things might as well be called Oiselle things, but there's been so much great stuff goin' on!  Here's the latest blog post announcing all the new VolĂ©e Team members.  Check it!

OK, in case you missed these internet gems:

Fascinating and fun facts about one of the best tv shows ever: Friends, of course, from Buzzfeed

Speaking of tv, it's no secret that I'm a big Sons of Anarchy fan, and the fact they made a parody on Sesame Street cracks me up.



(Also, the Cookie Monster take on Icona Pop is pretty hilarious.) Since gun running biker gangs are fair game, perhaps the crazy life of a science teacher turned drug lord is next?  I'm hopeful that they'll give a nod to one of my other all time favorite TV shows, Breaking Bad.  Walter White and my boyfriend Jesse Pinkman are back THIS SUNDAY.  Thank the lord.



I get a lot of "oh, is your son so excited for Shark Week??" because of his shark obsession and, puhleez people, I'm not showing him most of it!  I've DVRed a few shows, but in my opinion, most of it is a bit much for a six year old.  This shark cat was fun for the whole family.




Stephen Colbert is also a favorite in this household, and his rendition of Get Lucky by Daft Punk is destined to be a classic Colbert Nation moment.  And Robin Thicke did his thing on the show after Daft Punk did not.  I'm not a huge fan of Blurred Lines, he totally loses me with "what rhymes with hug me?"  WHAT?  Seriously, what innuendo rhymes with hug me??  The 'F' word?? No. That does not rhyme.  BUT, Jimmy Fallon can do no wrong, and you've probably seen this - but, just in case...



My favorite is when he does this bit with Carly Rae Jepsen.

For this week, I'm adding Hey Now by Martin Solveig to the playlist - a repeat artist from last year's list.




Happy weekend and happy WEEK!


2013 Playlist
We Come Running by Youngblood Hawke
Take You Higher by Goodwill and Hook N Sling
Justice and Independence by John Mellencamp
Glowing by Nikki Williams
Easy  by Porter Robinson (and Matt Zo).
I Could be the One by Avicii featuring Nicky Romero
Pair of Dice by Tiesto
Ain't No Stoppin' by Ferry Corsten (featuring Ben Hague)
Come and Get It by Selena Gomez
Apollo by Hardwell featuring Amba Shepherd
This Head I Hold by Electric Guest
Castles in the Sky by Ian Van Dahl
Feel this Moment by Pitbull, featuring Christina Aguilera
Into Your Arms by the Lemonheads
Just Give me a Reason by Pink
I Love It by Icona Pop
Little Secrets Passion Pit
Sovereign Light Cafe by Keane, remixed by Afrojack
Clarity by Zedd
Years by Alesso
Something Good Can Work by Two Door Cinema Club
She Wolf by David Guetta, featuring Sia
Alive by Krewella
Illmerica by Wolfgang Garnter
Drowning by Armin van Buren
Give Me Your Hand by The Ready Set
Language by Porter Robinson
Cry for You by September
You Are My Diamond by Tiesto - featuring Kianna
Arguru - Deadmau5
We Are by Jus Jack & Oza, featuring Aeone

8.08.2013

Tips for an Extended Hospital Stay with Your Six Year Old


I thought using the term 'surviving' an extended stay at Seattle Children's hospital would be a misleading title on two fronts.  For one, Seattle Children's is a wonderful hospital, I'd hate to give any impression to the contrary; and two, my son's issue was not immediately life threatening - 'surviving' seemed too dramatic a word.  Long story short, his ureter (the tube goin' out of your kidney toward the bladder) was getting squished by a blood vessel and causing his kidney to become inflamed (hydronephrosis).  It's something that he grew out of when he was very small, but I suppose that the pesky blood vessel started growing again in an inconvenient way.  OK, so, since we now know the backstory, and how things went down - here are some handy tips and totally hilarious and heartbreaking pictures that I have to share of my brave little guy.  


Oh yes, we've added a hammerhead and bull shark to his collection - as well as this one that GLOWS


Take care of yourself, so that you can take care of your kid.  I was clearly not the parent to be with my son going on two hours of sleep after Ragnar.  I was quite the sight walking into the ER donning my pink shorts and neon orange compression socks looking like a weepy deer in the headlights.  The staff are amazing and, after chatting with me, led me to the restroom so I could compose myself.  They also tried to give me some Gatorade after I explained what I'd been up to over the previous 36 hours.  Once I spent some time with my family and talked to the doctors, I took my daughter home so that I could get some much needed sleep and my husband could focus on my son.  Then, over the course of our five day stint, we would take turns staying overnight on the convertible sofa in the hospital room so that we could each recharge and be at our best for my son (and not want to throttle him after so much togetherness, either).  It probably goes without saying, but pack like you did when you were birthin' them - bring comfy pjs, a pillow, snacks, toiletries, etc. etc. 

Suck it up, buttercup.  Yeah, I was most certainly taken aback seeing my kid hooked up to an IV and in pain.  It took everything in me not to break down into a blubbering mess.  But I knew I needed that time in the bathroom before seeing him to pull myself together, and there would be several other times that I had to just step out of the room and cry.  My boy never once seemed scared and I think it's good to remember that most kids his age don't have a real frame of reference for being in the hospital.  As far as he knows, it's just a place where people go to get better.  Most of the credit here goes to the amazing nurses who make them feel so at ease, while being firm and completely transparent when they explaining things.  He was suuuper impressed that a 'robot' was going to go into his 'tummy' and fix it!  


And hospitals are places with magician clowns that can pull things out of your ears, naturally.
It's kind of like being on 'island time' in the hospital, be prepared to wait, and wait, and wait some more...  Most of us moms remember our own hospital stays for the birth of our children and this experience wasn't much different as far as how timely things happen.  "The lab tech should come by in twenty minutes for bloodwork" translates to about an hour.  "We should know by tomorrow morning" means, by the afternoon or evening.  Now, this wasn't always the case, but it was more the norm than not.  We were admitted on Saturday and were supposed to get on the schedule to get him a stent to ease the blockage in his ureter by Sunday afternoon, and we'd hear something by Sunday morning.  Aaaaaand, by Sunday late afternoon it was conveyed that we were lost in the shuffle.  So we rescheduled for Monday, but put a request in for the 'permanent fix' surgery if it was possible (where they would take out the portion of the ureter that was blocked and put it back together).  Of course this became a possibility on Monday and then we were scheduled for Tuesday; for those counting, that's three nights in the hospital without any surgery happening.  Which also translated to: don't eat, now you can eat, don't eat, now you can eat, etc.  Poor little guy's tummy was ALL out of whack.  Which brings me to...


Goofy stuffed mouth smile, mmmm...  Jimmy Johns


Bring some favorite foods and scope out food choices nearby.  Each time he was given the green light to eat, he wanted Jimmy Johns (we taught him right).  So, thankfully, there's one near Children's.  Although, we would have driven an hour to get him a slim #4 with cheese.  And I didn't have to drive far to discover and devour Veggie Grill.  In hindsight, I'd have brought more foods from home that would make him happy.  But toys? Oh yeah, we were alllll over that...


Methodically putting his Legos together


Coloring books, sticker books, books for reading, and most importantly, LEGO MINIFUGRE SETS are your friends.  Or, you know, whatever your kid is into: Polly Pockets, Star Wars action figures, etc.  After a particularly trying moment where we had to have several nurses help get a blood sample (yeah, one of those moments where I had to leave the room and go cry afterwards), they offered up a Lego toy for being so brave - a little minifigure car set.  He spent a nice quiet half an hour building his car and then another half an hour playing with it.  Most people that know my son know that he's the active type, to say the least.  I need to get him out and run him like a lab most every day to keep the cranky away.  Not a bad thing, for sure, but it's bad when stuck in a hospital room for five days.  Legos didn't occur to me, because we have such vast quantities at home and they just seemed to unwieldy.  Enter the minifigure sets!  After that, on my morning 'off' my daughter and I picked out three more boxes at Target to give him one per day.  But, his inner lab still needed to be appeased...


Ermagherd, sloooow DOWN - pic is blurry because he's haulin'
and we found some Seafair Pirates on one of our walks!

Don't be afraid to walk, walk, walk, and walk some more if they're hooked up to an IV cart.  Every day we went on epic walks around the hospital.  I feel like I know every nook and cranny, every elevator bank, every fish tank, every Starbucks, and every play place.  Yes, Seattle Children's has a totally awesomesauce playground and playroom that we'd visit at least twice a day.  Not only do they have stuff for the kids to play with (train tables, play kitchens, pool table and xbox for the older set) but shelves full of DVDs, books and toys for the kids to take back to the rooms.  We had quite the menagerie of dinosaurs going in our little corner of the hospital, as well as a few movies (yes, it's inevitable) and some new fun books to read.  


on the playground
working on one of many art projects/crafts


Try to make life as normal as possible for both kids (if you have more than one).  It was really hard to keep a semblance of normalcy for baby girl.  Naptime went out the window for her because that was usually the best time for us all to be together.  Usually we'd wake up in the morning, touch base with each other and then get through lunch with whichever child we had slept with the night before and then be together at the hospital after lunchtime until just before dinner.  So, we kept the pre-hospital time as normal as possible for her with trips to our usual parks, the Children's Museum or the Zoo.  Yeah!  We finally caved to a zoo membership.  As for my son, we tried to hit the playroom just after breakfast and some morning cartoons, and did our usual bedtime routines (bending the rules, of course, and doing three or four books instead of the usual two) even if that ended up being two hours later than normal.  


checking out the toys at the hospital playground


Bring an extra large shopping bag or extra duffel bag for all of the crap you will accumulate.  All those art projects, Legos, stuffed animals purchased at the gift shop (like the aforementioned hammerhead and bull shark - we also lucked out that our Children's Hospital is themed after sea life), and medicine take up SPACE.


This is mainly motrin and acitaminophen - we're set for a few years.
being sprung from this joint! good thing we had a wagon for all of our sh*t


We finally did have that surgery, the big laparoscopic fix on Tuesday evening and, rather than going home in the evening the next day, they had us stay until Thursday morning.  Those last two days were quite the opposite of the first three, in that I was trying to get him to take walks and be active.  He was still foggy from being sedated, hopped up on painkillers and naturally his muscles hurt where the three little incisions went for the 'robot.'  It was really tempting to sit with a book and let him snooze.  But tempting him with walks to Starbucks for a smoothie, or a cup of whipped cream (yes, the baristas would make a tall cold cup filled with whip and then top it with caramel and/or chocolate sauce for the kids) was just the ticket.  I am not above bribery.

I vividly remember seeing the families with kids in scrubs as I'd go for routine ultrasounds and clinic visits when my son was tiny.  I couldn't imagine being one of those families holding a pager as my baby was whisked off to surgery.  Being on the other side of things, I know that it is not the end of the world for the majority of families and that these kids will be on their feet before you know it.  I probably should have focused more upon the faces of the children (which can be hard) than those of the parents at Children's.  Every single kid there is a superhero, it us adults that are sniveling piles of jello.  


Yeah, remember this?  I really handled his first day of Kindergarten well...













8.06.2013

Books I Read in July 2013

This Lullaby by Sarah Dessen

This Lullaby



Sarah Dessen's novels have been perfect summer reading. I liked this one even more than Keeping the Moon. She does seem to follow a bit of a formula: girl meets boy, loses boy, etc. But these stories bring me back to my youth, and even though they are fun YA chick lit, they're not lacking in substance. I'm left thinking about the characters, themes and passages from the book long after I'm finished. Good stuff.



Wonder by R.J. Palacio


Wonder


Just a wonderful (true to it's name) story that I hope to share with my kids someday. I loved how it switched perspectives between the children and, although Auggie is the main character who is unfairly judged by his deformities, each kid has something going on in their lives that can't be known by appearances. Whether we are 'normal' looking or not, we can never know what it is like to walk in someone else's shoes and should treat everyone with kindness and respect. The book is a bit heavy handed with this message, but it doesn't make it any less worthwhile. I also have little faith that kids exist in real life like those that befriended Auggie, but I can hope, and hope this book might make a difference.

Ladder of Years by Anne Tyler


Ladder of Years


I just really didn't like the main character, so I was always frustrated with her actions and just didn't care much what happened to her. I thought the premise was intriguing: forty-something woman decides to just up and leave her family one day while on their beach vacation and assumes a new life. It just fell flat for me, and I've tried a few Tyler books since The Accidental Tourist and none of them live up to it's brilliance.


Sisterland by Curtis Sittenfeld


Sisterland



Oh, I just keep waiting for another Prep from Sittenfeld and this had great promise for about the first two thirds of the book. There were the usual complex characters I've come to expect from her novels: real, quirky, self centered and relatable (especially since the main character is the mother of two small children). I also thought the whole paranormal/ESP narrative, and the impending earthquake, definitely kept me engaged - it was a page turner, for the most part. But the last third of the book veered off in a direction that just made me feel horrible. I suppose that's how she wanted us to feel, and that's one of the reasons I liked Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn - it incited strong emotions. But this ending almost seemed slap dashed together for shock value when it could have ended in a million different but equally compelling ways.

8.04.2013

This Weeks Eats 8.4.13

We finally decided to try a new restaurant for my birthday dinner out this weekend.  As out and proud creatures of habit (are you shocked?!), we usually fall into two patterns: nice steak dinner or margarita dinner.  Also, side note: the Origami tank goes quite well from sweaty to date night.



So I decided to break the mold and dine at a nice little Italian place in our hometown.  It was pretty good, but I'm already jonesing for a good margarita or steak!  Ah well.  Although, my salad course was fantastic.



Grilled Romaine Salad with bacon, blue cheese and apple


Grilled lettuces have always piqued my interest, and now I'm eager to finally make our own!  We'll pair some grilled romaine (and maybe radicchio?) with our usual wedge salad toppings (bacon, blue cheese, tomato and red onion) along with our favorite steak dinner, naturally.

I'm linking up with Mommy Run Fast and Jill Conyers, as well as Rachel at In No Simple Language - be sure to check out all the great weekly menus!


8.02.2013

Friday Things, Parenting Gems

Lordy, it's been awhile since I've done a Friday Things post and there's so many things goin' on it's hard to whittle down all the fun stuff I've encountered on the internet over the last couple of weeks.  I've also been overwhelmed and busy getting to know all the new Oiselle VolĂ©e (French for flock) members!  So very exciting that we're going from a group of 150 to 250!!  My Twitter is blowing up and I'm so grateful to be a part of the story for another year.  Stay tuned to the Oiselle blog for the full list of the team soon.  Check out this post to meet all of the Haute VolĂ©e team (French for High Flyer, what was formerly the 'Elite' team) - exciting stuff.

OK, to narrow things down, I'm going with a parenting theme for Friday Things.  Here are some great tidbits on the internet that have made me smile lately...


That's right!
via pinterest
I loved this well thought out response that Miranda (Sweet Mother of Blog) gives to the question we often get, "So, do you love being a mom?" via Mamapedia Voices.  You can read her full post here.


Funny Family Ecard: Let's drive Mom bat-shit crazy. That way, she'll let us watch TV just to get a moment's peace.
That's my son on the right, talking to my daughter on the left.

This Huffington Post Parents blog post, from the always awesome Rants From Mommyland, is not only validating, but makes me hopeful for this 'Sweet Spot' which I can already catch glimpses of in our family.  

And, last but not least, the latest The Fast Life column by my running BFF Lauren Fleshman is hella awesome - they all are.

Before a lovely dinner of burgers and poutine, learning all sorts of crazy amazing things about the life of a professional runner. (Okay, I'm more like a superfan teammate than BFF...)
Also, what's up mailman - I've yet to receive my copy of Runners World!  Rumor has it that Lauren's got another great column in this month's issue, encapsulating the amazing talk she gave at the Eugene Marathon expo that I was so fortunate to hear in person.

Coffee post expo.  Awe, and many of my Ragnar peeps in this photo, too!

OK, on to music; this song has been on my playlist for awhile and I just realized I haven't shared it here: We Come Running by Youngblood Hawke is an awesome song, and it's got the word 'running' right there in the title - perfect.


Happy weekend!


PS - Don't forget to enter the Spartan Race Giveaway - it ends on Tuesday.  Odds are good folks, and I'd love to see some guuurl power entries!

2013 Playlist
Take You Higher by Goodwill and Hook N Sling
Justice and Independence by John Mellencamp
Glowing by Nikki Williams
Easy  by Porter Robinson (and Matt Zo).
I Could be the One by Avicii featuring Nicky Romero
Pair of Dice by Tiesto
Ain't No Stoppin' by Ferry Corsten (featuring Ben Hague)
Come and Get It by Selena Gomez
Apollo by Hardwell featuring Amba Shepherd
This Head I Hold by Electric Guest
Castles in the Sky by Ian Van Dahl
Feel this Moment by Pitbull, featuring Christina Aguilera
Into Your Arms by the Lemonheads
Just Give me a Reason by Pink
I Love It by Icona Pop
Little Secrets Passion Pit
Sovereign Light Cafe by Keane, remixed by Afrojack
Clarity by Zedd
Years by Alesso
Something Good Can Work by Two Door Cinema Club
She Wolf by David Guetta, featuring Sia
Alive by Krewella
Illmerica by Wolfgang Garnter
Drowning by Armin van Buren
Give Me Your Hand by The Ready Set
Language by Porter Robinson
Cry for You by September
You Are My Diamond by Tiesto - featuring Kianna
Arguru - Deadmau5
We Are by Jus Jack & Oza, featuring Aeone